This book is about the personal paradigms in our lives - the powerful u n d e r l y i n g concepts and perceptions that shape our future life and how these mold our attitudes toward commitment. The book holds out the promise that these paradigms can be adjusted by personal experiences and work on oneself, including self-examination and the help of outsiders. Finally and ultimately the most important behavior that the book encourages everyone to learn is to live within themselves by discovering their personal boundaries. This means living within their physical, emotional, intellectual, and ¬ financial boundaries in order to reach and enjoy contentment. If you are seeking answers to these questions and conditions for living more comfortably, this book is for you!