Discover practical strategies for thriving in autism and ADHD relationships
If your partner has co-occurring autism and ADHD (AuDHD), you face unique challenges that most relationship advice doesn't address. Your partner needs routine but can't maintain it. They crave connection but find socializing exhausting. They hyperfocus for hours but forget basic tasks. These contradictions aren't personality flaws-they're neurological realities that require specialized understanding and approaches.
This comprehensive guide helps you:
Understand the AuDHD contradiction matrix and why your partner's needs seem impossible to meet
Navigate communication breakdowns, meltdowns, and shutdowns with proven protocols
Manage executive function challenges affecting household responsibilities and planning
Address sensory sensitivities impacting shared spaces and physical intimacy
Recognize and prevent partner burnout and Cassandra Syndrome
Set healthy boundaries while providing appropriate neurodivergent support
Distinguish neurological responses from relationship problems
Build sustainable systems for daily life, parenting, and financial management
Access frameworks for deciding if staying or leaving is right for you
Inside, you'll find:
17 comprehensive chapters covering every aspect of AuDHD partnerships
Real-life case studies illustrating practical applications
Communication scripts and self-advocacy templates
Assessment tools for burnout, boundaries, and relationship health
Quick-reference guides for meltdown protocols and sensory accommodations
Resources for therapists, support groups, and crisis intervention
Perfect for:
Partners of adults with autism and ADHD, spouses navigating neurodivergent relationships, couples where both partners have AuDHD, therapists working with mixed neurotype couples, and anyone seeking to understand the unique dynamics of autism ADHD partnerships.
Learn evidence-based strategies for managing executive dysfunction, sensory overwhelm, emotional dysregulation, and the daily realities of living with someone whose brain works fundamentally differently. This book acknowledges the genuine difficulty of these relationships while providing practical tools for creating sustainable, loving partnerships.
Stop feeling isolated in your struggles. Discover that thousands of partners face the same challenges, and there are proven approaches that actually work for neurodivergent relationships.