Experiencing Endings and Beginnings highlights the emotional turmoil which, to a greater or lesser extent, accompanies the changes we experience throughout life. It considers the nature of the anxieties aroused by a new situation, changes in our circumstances, beginnings and endings of relationships, gains and losses, and the ending of a previous state throughout the lifespan.
Endings and beginnings are shown to be closely related, for every new situation entered into, more often than not, involves having to let go of some of the advantages of the previous one as well as losing what is familiar and facing fear of the unknown. Isca Wittenberg shows how all these aspects of change evoke primitive anxieties, stemming from our earliest experiences of coming into this world. The book considers life changes including birth and weaning, going to nursery and school, beginning work, marriage, parenthood, and retirement, with reference to clinical examples. This revised edition includes a new chapter by the author examining advanced old age.
Experiencing Endings and Beginnings will be essential reading for psychoanalysts and psychotherapists in practice and in training. It will also be of great interest to other professionals and to readers interested in understanding change across the lifespan.
Autorentext
Isca Wittenberg is a consultant psychoanalytic psychotherapist for children and adults who worked at the Tavistock Clinic for twenty-five years and was vice-chairman of the Tavistock for ten years. She is a lifetime honorary member of the Tavistock Clinic, and her previous books include Psycho-Analytic Insight and Relationships and The Emotional Experience of Teaching and Learning, the latter with contributions from Gianna Williams and Elsie Osborne.
Klappentext
Experiencing Endings and Beginnings highlights the emotional turmoil which, to a greater or lesser extent, accompanies the changes we experience throughout life. It considers the nature of the anxieties aroused by a new situation, changes in our circumstances, beginnings, and endings of relationships, gains and losses and the ending of a previous state throughout the lifespan.
Endings and beginnings are shown to be closely related, for every new situation entered into, more often than not, involves having to let go of some of the advantages of the previous one as well as losing what is familiar and facing fear of the unknown. Isca Wittenberg shows how all these aspects of change evoke primitive anxieties, stemming from our earliest experiences of coming into this world. The book considers life changes including birth and weaning, going to nursery and school, beginning work, marriage, parenthood, and retirement, with reference to clinical examples. This revised edition includes a new chapter by the author examining advanced old age.
Experiencing Endings and Beginnings will be essential reading for psychoanalysts and psychotherapists in practice and in training. It will also be of great interest to other professionals and to readers interested in understanding change across the lifespan.
Inhalt
Acknowledgements
About the Author
Preface to the first edition
Author's Note
CHAPTER ONE
Learning from experience of endings and beginnings
CHAPTER TWO
From life inside mother to life outside
CHAPTER THREE
Separateness and new connections
CHAPTER FOUR
Weaning
CHAPTER FIVE
Becoming a child in the family
CHAPTER SIX
Going to nursery
CHAPTER SEVEN
Beginnings and endings in school
CHAPTER EIGHT
Tertiary education and entering the world of work
CHAPTER NINE
Getting married
CHAPTER TEN
Becoming a parent
CHAPTER ELEVEN
Bereavement
CHAPTER TWELVE
Retirement
CHAPTER THIRTEEN
Growing old and facing death
CHAPTER FOURTEEN
Growing ever older - facing the end of life
References
Bibliography
Index