Men put your feet in James Pope's shoes. Women, put your feet in shoes of the women that teaches James the art of intimacy, as he travels the road from farm-to-matresoname.

In high school, working on a farm as a hired man, my sisters Bonnie and Frances realized my social isolation would restrict me when I crossed the bridge into adult socializing, saying, "No girl will be interested in why you like Oliver tractors or the price of fat cattle at Omaha stockyards"! They made sure I learned how to dance and converse with girls. Live music and dancing, opened the social door. Sincere questioning/listening/open minded, lead me into the world of intimacy!