Jessica found her husband sitting on the side of their bed staring blankly across the room. Soon Jim could no longer speak, write, read or understand spoken language. Her mind swirled with panic and her typical logical approach to life went out the window. Over the next seventeen months, she would call upon every ounce of her faith to come out on the other side with a renewed path for her life. Her intimate writings, filled with hope and the power of love, chronicle this magnificent walk into the unknown. 'It All Goes With the Wedding Cake' is the story of how one woman fought to be an advocate for her husband and to provide the independence, autonomy and sense of purpose we all deserve.