Feel hijacked by your emotions in relationships? That argument you didn't mean to have isn't a failure of your love?it's a biological one. Your nervous system, designed to protect you from sabertooth tigers, mistakes your partner's tone for a life-threatening threat, triggering fight, flight, or shutdown.

This groundbreaking guide reveals the hidden force shaping your love life: your autonomic nervous system. You'll discover a powerful roadmap to:

• Identify your unique triggers and shutdown patterns.
• Employ simple somatic tools to calm overwhelm and numbness.
• Master the art of co-regulation to transform conflict into connection.
• Build a "circle of safety" for a truly secure, lasting partnership.

Move beyond communication hacks and willpower. Learn the science of staying connected when you want to shut down or blow up. Stop blaming your relationship and start understanding your protection.