Everything you need to know about sex in the 21st century
S-e-x isn't a bad three-letter word--but many of us are afraid to talk about it. In this new edition of the fun and comprehensive guide to sex, you'll find out how to approach intimacy in a new way to get the most pleasure from a physical relationship. Written by the world's favorite expert on the topic, Dr. Ruth helps you explore the ins and outs of dating and commitment, talk about sex with partners, and consider any health and social issues you may encounter along the way.
As well as giving you all you need to know about how to make your sex life happy, safe, and rewarding, this edition of Sex for Dummies has been updated to include discussions of recent changes and issues surrounding sexual topics -- such as transgender rights and the #metoo movement -- to provide a modern, 360-degree view of how our diverse sexualities impact and enrich the world around us.
* Whether experienced or not, get the low down on how sex works
* Find out how to spice up yoursex life
* Take precautions to stay healthy
* Discover 10 common sexual myths -- and why they're wrong
Thanks to the timeless wisdom and unabashed honesty that only Dr. Ruth can offer, sex doesn't have to be taboo -- and this book makes it easier than ever to let your hair down in the bedroom while still keeping your head on straight!
Autorentext
Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer is America's favorite sex therapist. Author of over 40 books and host of several TV shows on human sexual- ity, she frequently lectures around the world. Pierre A. Lehu has worked with Dr. Ruth for decades as publicist, writer, and friend.
Klappentext
- Decide when the time is right and enjoy the first time
- Contraception, safer sex, and exploring sexual fantasies
- Talk to children and young adults about sex
Everything you need to know about sex in the 21st century
S-e-x isn't a bad three-letter wordbut many of us are afraid to talk about it. In this new edition of the fun and comprehensive guide to sex, you'll find out how to approach intimacy in a new way to get the most pleasure from a physical relationship. Written by the world's favorite expert on the topic, Dr. Ruth helps you explore the ins and outs of dating and commitment, sex with partners, and any health and social issues you may encounter along the way. She also provides sound advice on how to honestly discuss your needs with your partner to make sure that the sex you have is sex that you'll love.
Inside...
- Make time for sex
- Regain the art of conversation
- Try out a new position or two
- Enjoy oral sex
- Avoid STDs with safer sex
- Overcome sexual dysfunction
- Discuss sex with your kids
- Understand the importance of consent
Zusammenfassung
Everything you need to know about sex in the 21st century
S-e-x isn't a bad three-letter wordbut many of us are afraid to talk about it. In this new edition of the fun and comprehensive guide to sex, you'll find out how to approach intimacy in a new way to get the most pleasure from a physical relationship. Written by the world's favorite expert on the topic, Dr. Ruth helps you explore the ins and outs of dating and commitment, talk about sex with partners, and consider any health and social issues you may encounter along the way.
As well as giving you all you need to know about how to make your sex life happy, safe, and rewarding, this edition of Sex for Dummies has been updated to include discussions of recent changes and issues surrounding sexual topics such as transgender rights and the #metoo movement to provide a modern, 360-degree view of how our diverse sexualities impact and enrich the world around us.
- Whether experienced or not, get the low down on how sex works
- Find out how to spice up yoursex life
- Take precautions to stay healthy
- Discover 10 common sexual myths and why they're wrong
Thanks to the timeless wisdom and unabashed honesty that only Dr. Ruth can offer, sex doesn't have to be taboo and this book makes it easier than ever to let your hair down in the bedroom while still keeping your head on straight!
Inhalt
Introduction 1
About This Book 1
Foolish Assumptions 3
Icons Used in This Book 4
Beyond the Book 4
Where to Go from Here 5
Part 1: Getting Ready for Sex 7
Chapter 1: So You Want to Know More about Sex 9
What is Sex, Anyway? 10
So Why Do We Have It? 10
Understanding the Ins and Outs of the Sexual Response Cycle 16
Partnering Up 18
Playing It Safe 20
Adjusting Over Time 20
Are You Ready to Get Busy? 21
Chapter 2: Tuning the Male Organ 23
The Penis: Inside and Out 23
Grasping the Basics of Your Testicles 31
The Prostate Gland 37
Chapter 3: Demystifying the Female Parts 39
Making Time for a Grand Tour 40
Translating All Those Latin Terms 41
The Men Words: Menstruation and Menopause 49
Breasts: Hanging in There 55
Chapter 4: Dating 59
Does Anybody Still Date? 60
Where Chemistry and Physics Mingle 60
Giving Romance a Chance to Bloom 61
Overcoming Loneliness and Getting Yourself in Dating Shape 62
A Road Map for the Dating Apps 63
The Thrill of the Chase, the Bummer of Rejection 65
Finding the Right Partner: Difficult, Yes; Impossible, No 67
If You're North of the 29th Parallel 73
Practical Dating Tips for All Ages 75
Should You Have Sex On a First Date? 76
Chapter 5: Introducing Sex into a Relationship 77
Determining When the Time is Right 79
Safety First 82
Advice for Virgins 84
Advice for Those with Prior Experience 85
Chapter 6: Commitment and Marriage 89
Knowing That Love Isn't Enough 90
Handling Children and Commitment 90
Putting Your Marriage First 91
Strengthening Your Marriage 91
Chapter 7: It's All about Control: Contraception and Sex 97
Why Use Contraceptives? 98
Considering Your Birth Control Options 100
Facing Facts about Birth Control Myths 119
If Your Method Fails 122
Chapter 8: Growing Up Fast: The Challenges of the Teen Years 127
Being a Teenager in the 21st Century 128
Evolving into Adulthood 130
Dealing with Common Concerns 131
Protecting Your Privacy 141
Don't Stop Here 142
Part 2: Doing It 143
Chapter 9: Foreplay: Revving Up Your Engines 145
Foreplay for Life 145
Linking the Emotional to the Physical 146
Setting the Stage 147
Getting Physical 149
Switching Gears: Engaging the Genitals 154
Moving on to the Main Event 159
Variety is the Spice of Foreplay 160
Chapter 10: Intercourse: Coming Together for the First Time 161
What's the Rush? 162
Making Your First Time Special 163
The First Time for Women 167
The First Time for Men 170
The First Time All Over Again 171
Chapter 11: Changing Positions: Variations on a Theme 173
The Good Old Missionary Position 174
The Female-Superior Position 177
Taking Her from Behind 179
East Side, West Side, Side by Side 183
Lap Dancing 184
The Oceanic Position 185
Standing Up 186
Oral Sex: Using Your Mouth 187
Anal Sex: Handle with Care 188
Safe Sex: Playing Alone Together 189
Sex During and After Pregnancy: Orgas…