"Everywhere you go, you keep overhearing other moms say to their misbehaving children, 'That's one. That's two. That's three.' And then you watch in disbelief as their kid actually stops!"-PopSugar Moms
The most effective parenting guide for tantrums.
Do you want to strengthen your parent-child bond? What about learning how to build self-esteem early on in your toddler, preschooler, or middle schooler? Are you ready to have a calm, happy family and home? This therapist-recommended, evidence-based book is the #1 resource for effective and enjoyable parenting using gentle techniques that work.
Since kids don't come with a manual, 1-2-3 Magic is the next best thing. Using his signature counting method, Dr. Thomas Phelan helps parents to quickly, calmly, and effectively stop obnoxious behaviors like tantrums and meltdowns, whining and pouting, talking back, sibling rivalry, and more by teaching your child how to regulate their emotions in a way that's safe for them and drama-free for you.
You'll also learn how to:
- Build a solid foundation for being a confident parent
- Manage testing and manipulation to avoid derailing your efforts
- Encourage good behavior
- Strengthen your relationship with your child
- Establish positive bedtime, dinnertime, homework, and wake-up routines
Millions of parents from all over the world have used this bestselling child discipline book to raise happier families and put the fun back into parenting-and you can too!
1-2-3 Magic is one of Healthline's Best Parenting Books of 2017, a 2016 Mom's Choice Award Winner, a 2016 National Parenting Product Award Winner and a 2016 Family Choice Award Winner.
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Dr. Thomas W. Phelan is an internationally renowned expert, author, and lecturer on child discipline and Attention Deficit Disorder. A registered Ph.D. clinical psychologist, he appears frequently on radio and TV. Dr. Phelan practices and works in the western suburbs of Chicago.
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The gold standard of parenting books and a 2016 Family Choice Award winner!"1-2-3 Magic made parenting fun again.""My three-year-old has become a different little girl, and she is so much happier now.""All I have to say is that the ideas in this book really WORK! It really is like magic!""Our home has become a much more positive place."The sixth edition of the 1.7 million-copy bestseller 1-2-3 Magic by internationally acclaimed parenting expert Thomas W. Phelan, Ph.D. compiles two decades of research and experience into an easy-to-use program designed for parents striving to connect more deeply with their children and help them develop into healthy, capable teenagers and adults. Dr. Phelan breaks down the complex task of parenting into three straightforward steps:1. Helping your children learn how to control their emotions and refrain from negative behavior, including tantrums, whining, and sibling rivalry 2. Encouraging good behavior in your children and providing positive feedback 3. Strengthening your relationships with your children to reinforce the natural parent-child bondYou'll find tools to use in virtually every situation, as well as real-life stories from parents who have successfully navigated common parenting challenges such as reluctance to do chores, talking back, and refusing to go to bed or getting up in the middle of the night. For years, millions of parents from all over the world have used the award-winning 1-2-3 Magic program to help their children develop emotional intelligence, raise healthier, happier families, and put the fun back into parenting.Along with other highly-respected parenting classics such as How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Parenting with Love and Logic, The 5 Love Languages of Children, No Drama Discipline, and The Whole Brain Child, 1-2-3 Magic is an essential tool for parents hoping to connect more deeply with their children.
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CONTENTS
Preface
Introduction: Parenting: Long Hours, No Pay, Excellent Benefits
Part I: Building a Solid Foundation for Parenting
Chapter 1: Orientation to the Parenting Profession
Chapter 2: Your Job as a Parent
Chapter 3: Challenging the Little Adult Assumption
Chapter 4: Avoiding the Two Biggest Discipline Mistakes
Part II: Controlling Obnoxious Behavior: Parenting Job 1
Chapter 5: Getting Results through Counting
Chapter 6: Advice for Nearly Any Counting Challenge
Chapter 7: Disciplining Your Child in Public
Real-Life Story 1: The Case of the Temper Tantrum Terrorist
Chapter 8: How to Handle Sibling Rivalry, Tantrums, Pouting, and Lying
Real-Life Story 2: The Incredible Case of the Traveling Troublemakers
Chapter 9: Getting Started with Counting
Part III: Managing Testing and Manipulation
Chapter 10: Recognizing the Six Types of Testing and Manipulation
Chapter 11: Tales from the Trenches
Part IV: Encouraging Good Behavior: Parenting Job 2
Chapter 12: Establishing Positive Routines