When a friend or family member suffers from depression, we naturally want to help-but too often our good intentions seem to come out wrong. We can feel guilty, or even angry, about the sheer difficulty in communicating with someone we love so much. This practical, compassionate guide can help you understand exactly what your loved one is going through, and why certain approaches help and others have the potential to do damage. Whether your loved one is receiving professional treatment or not, this guide addresses the vital role you can play in managing the day-to-day ups and downs, and speeding up recovery. By discussing common behaviors and situations, Talking to Depression offers specific advice on what to do and what not to do-what to say and what not to say-to avoid frustration and give the kind of caring, effective support that really makes a difference. "A prescriptive guide for genuine relating with loved ones experiencing depression. It touches the heart of one's inner experience."-Jo Cohen Hamilton, Ph.D.

Autorentext

Claudia J. Strauss is an award-winning communication consultant and educator. An adjunct professor of English at Albright College in Reading, Pennsylvania, she runs a business in strategic communication and coaches adults with ADD and other learning disabilities.

Martha Manning is a clinical psychologist and the author of The Common Thread: Mothers, Daughters, and the Power of Empathy; Undercurrents: A Life Beneath the Surface; Chasing Grace: Reflections of a Catholic Girl, Grown Up; and All Seasons Pass: Grieving Miscarriage. She has been featured on Dateline, Good Morning America, CBS This Morning, 60 Minutes II, and the Emmy Award-nominated HBO documentary Dead Blue: Surviving Depression.



Inhalt

Talking To DepressionForeword by Martha Manning Preface

PART I-GETTING STARTED

Chapter One

An Overview of Depression: Frequently Asked Questions

Chapter Two Where to Start: Deciding You Can Help

Chapter Three Seeing Through Their Eyes: What Depression Feels Like

PART II-WHAT TO SAY

Chapter Four

Opening the Conversation: First Things to Say

Chapter Five Words That Wound: What Not to Say

Chapter Six Words That Work: What to Say

Chapter Seven Dos and Dont's: A Helpful Reference

Chapter Eight Answering and Unanswerable: Responding to Difficult Questions

PART III-WHAT TO DO

Chapter Nine

Without Words: Using Body Language to Show Your Support

Chapter Ten Some Practical Support: Ways You Can Help Keep Life on Track

Chapter Eleven Gifting: What You Can Give to Help Healing Happen

PART IV-SUICIDE

Chapter Twelve

Warning Signs: What to Look For

Chapter Thirteen Assessing Imminent Danger: What to Ask

Chapter Fourteen Still Here: Moving Toward Survival

PART V-LIVING DAY TO DAY

Chapter Fifteen

Situation by Situation: One Thing at a Time

PART VI-KIDS AND TEENAGERS

Chapter Sixteen

Tips for Kids: When Someone in the Family Is Suffering from Depression

Chapter Seventeen Tips About Kids: When They Are Depressed Themselves

PARTt VII-TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF

Chapter Eighteen

Talking to Yourself: Sustaining Your Strength

Afterword Easing the Way

Resources Where to Find Out More

Titel
Talking to Depression
Untertitel
Simple Ways To Connect When Someone In Your Life Is Depressed
EAN
9781101099506
Format
E-Book (epub)
Digitaler Kopierschutz
Adobe-DRM
Dateigrösse
0.29 MB
Anzahl Seiten
224