Learn how to read people, build trust and handle even the most difficult conversations with confidence.

'Laurence Alison is one of my academic heroes ... He makes the difficult clear - without losing his rigour.' Malcolm Gladwell, bestselling author of Outliers

'Fantastic' Hannah Critchlow, bestselling author of 21st Century Brain

All of us have to deal with difficult people. Whether we're asking our neighbour to move a fence or our boss for a pay rise, we can struggle to avoid arguments and get what we want.

Leading forensic psychologists Laurence and Emily Alison specialise in the most difficult interactions imaginable: criminal interrogations. They advise and train the police, security agencies, the FBI, and the CIA on how to deal with extremely dangerous suspects when the stakes are high.

After 30 years' work - and unprecedented access to 2,000 hours of terrorist interrogations - they have developed a groundbreaking model of interpersonal communication. This deceptively simple approach to handling any encounter works as well for teenagers as it does for terrorists.

In Rapport, they reveal the four communication styles that shape every interaction: Control (the Lion), Capitulate (the Mouse), Confront (the Tyrannosaur) and Co-operate (the Monkey). As soon as you understand these styles and your own goals, you can shape any conversation. And you'll be closer to the real secret: how to create instant rapport.

Combining cutting-edge psychology with real-world case studies, Rapport offers a practical framework for:

  • Reading people more accurately
  • Building trust and connection
  • Influencing conversations positively
  • Managing conflict and difficult personalities
  • Improving communication at work and at home
  • Negotiating more effectively
  • Developing stronger personal and professional relationships


Insightful, accessible and backed by decades of research, Rapport will change the way you understand human behaviour - and help you get the best from every conversation.



Autorentext

Emily Alison and Laurence Alison



Klappentext

'Laurence Alison is one of my academic heroes. He does what every writer longs to do. He makes the difficult clear - without losing his rigour.' Malcolm Gladwell

'They are quietly revolutionising the study and practice of interrogation... Their findings are changing the way law enforcement and security agencies approach the delicate and vital task of gathering human intelligence.' Guardian



Get what you want from even the most difficult characters


All of us have to deal with difficult people. Whether we're asking our neighbour to move a fence or our boss for a pay rise, we can struggle to avoid arguments and get what we want.

Laurence and Emily Alison are world leaders in forensic psychology, and they specialise in the most difficult interactions imaginable: criminal interrogations. They advise and train the police, security agencies, the FBI and the CIA on how to deal with extremely dangerous suspects when the stakes are high.

After 30 years' work - and unprecedented access to 2,000 hours of terrorist interrogations - they have developed a ground-breaking model of interpersonal communication. This deceptively simple approach to handling any encounter works as well for teenagers as it does for terrorists. Now it's time to share it with the world.

Rapport reveals that every interaction follows four styles: Control (the lion), Capitulate (the mouse), Confront (the Tyrannosaur) and Co-operate (the monkey). As soon as you understand these styles and your own goals you can shape any conversation at will. And you'll be closer to the real secret: how to create instant rapport.

Titel
Rapport
Untertitel
The Four Ways to Read People
EAN
9781473560796
Format
E-Book (epub)
Digitaler Kopierschutz
Adobe-DRM
Dateigrösse
4.19 MB
Anzahl Seiten
368