This book was written by the wife of a pastor. The book contains experiences both awesome and belittling that has helped to shape her life and ministry. It goes on to explain that many of things that people see of the pastors wife is only a charade and not a true reflection of the life that the pastor's wife really lives. The book also brings about an awareness of how pastors wives feel, are treated, and ways in which aspiring pastors wives can prepare themselves for ministry.