Kingsley A. Ononuju (aka Zuby) is a young ordained minister of God and an American author. He authored "Marriage 4 Christians", "Best Marriage Gift", and "Visa to Victory", all with more than 60,000 copies sold in United Kingdom and across the world. He says marriage is a wonderful thing but not for everyone, no matter your definition of it-- he says if you don't truly and totally believe in marriage or lasting marriage, you will never stay happy or long in it-- this is the first thing first.