Raven Sky came up with the title as an oxymoron. She raised the question, Where would you be if you changed your choice at any point in your life? If you changed your choice from what you did choose to another? Would you have gone through the same challenges or maybe you wouldn't? Would you become the person you are now if you didn't choose the path you chose in the past? So by coming up with this title, it was meant to be humorous. If she chose to be a nun, she would not have learned the lessons or gone through the challenges she has gone through to make her who she is today. Nor would she be able to share her knowledge from her life to help those who search for peace or understanding in their life.